In Full Bloom

The word is out about dani Blooms and I am so thankful! I recently did a motivational call and over 100 of you guys attended! Dream Chasers were united and had the realization that they are not alone. We all have our reasons on why our life is where it is today. Once you recognize why than you can find the proper tools to use to get you back on track. Which leads me to my post:

What is a life coach : simply put, I am someone to guide you back on the path you originally wanted to take. It’s not secret that life has a way of well getting in the way. It’s easy for us to give up on our dreams when other things need our attention. Be it our kids, our partners or our jobs we just don’t have time to focus on us as often as we like. But if that “dream” or “big idea” is still lingering than the universe is telling you to do something with it!

My job as a life coach is to help you figure out where you want to take this life and challenge your thoughts on why you can or can’t fulfill this. Then together we come up with a action packed plan to get you there.

It’s about teaching you new ways to make choices that create a more effective, balanced and fulfilling life. Saying what you want to do is the easy part, but doing it takes a serious amount of courage and focus.

Lets get real! How many time has the New Year come around where tell yourself “THIS IS MY YEAR, I’M GONNA MAKE IT HAPPEN REGARDLESS” but that energy quickly died down by february… ? It happens, we need a coach or a friend to help us stay on track. Some can easily quit their job and open a boutique at 26 because they were tired of putting their dream on hold while others may feel the same at their jobs but need a more strategic plan to fulfill that dream.

A Life Coach’s job is to help you do that. Someone to hold your hand along your way, figure out where you went wrong in the past and get your life back In Full Bloom. Thankfully, Every week I bring a new client to the state of enlightenment … by the time you get there your decision on life and the direction you want to take is not based on safety and fear anymore, It’s about commitment and accountability… to yourself!

While some Life Coaches have a more aggressive approach I stay true to who I am and offer a more peaceful journey because the reality is it’s about you tackling fears and motivating yourself, I’m just here to show you that you had it in you all along!

Take the time today to remind yourself why your dreams matter. Visualize where this dream can take you and do something today to ignite the fire for this dream… it can be a small step or a big one. But today is your day to take action.

If you are interested in getting on a free call with me, sign up here: Free Call with dani Blooms

Your dreams do matter, together lets ignite your passion and get your life back In Full Bloom.

dani Blooms
In Full Bloom, Life Coach

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It isn’t the things that happen to us in our lives that cause us to suffer, it’s how we relate to the things that happen to us that causes us to suffer – Pema Chodron

ADVICE FOR EVERY MARRIED COUPLE

Hi I am sharing this essay written by my mentor I believe it gives good advice for any married couple no matter if its male female or same sex…Benny

By Minister Zylphia

Excellent Advice For Every Couple

1.CHERISH YOUR WIFE. RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND.

The core emotional need of a woman is to be cherished. This is the husband’s number one responsibility. That means making her feel loved and appreciated, that she’s your number one priority.

A man’s core emotional need is to feel respected by his wife. When he comes home, he wants to feel that there is at least one person in the world who thinks he’s got what it takes. That means getting off the phone when he walks in the door.

2.TREAT EACH OTHER LIKE GOOD FRIENDS

Under the marriage canopy one of the seven blessings given to the bride and groom is that they should become “beloved friends.”

The hallmark of friendship is that each person validates and respects the other person’s feelings and needs. Validation means: What’s important to you is important to me. It’s a key way to make your spouse feel loved.

3. REMEMBER THE FOUR GOLDEN WORDS: LISTEN, COMPROMISE, REPAIR, AND GRATITUDE.

Agree to keep one basic rule at the beginning of your marriage: No matter how upset you are, never launch a verbal attack. Fighting with insults only makes problems worse and erodes the relationship. Instead, implement the four golden words:

Listening: It’s essential for working together and solving problems. Allow your spouse to speak without interruption and then repeat what has just been said. This reassure your spouse that he or she was heard.

Compromise: Strive to solve problems where both of you are happy with the solution. Neither one should feel coerced into accepting the other person’s point of view.

Repair: When you hurt each other emotionally, repair the breakdown and remove the lingering feelings of anger and resentment. Aim for 100% reconciliation. A little resentment multiplied 50 times can create a wall of bitterness.

Gratitude: You can never say thank you enough to your spouse. Try to notice everything your spouse does for you and acknowledge it with sincere gratitude.

4. ESTABLISH STRONG BOUNDARIES

Your spouse is your number one priority – not your parents, relatives, friends, children, work, or hobbies. Set strong boundaries that show you value your marriage and don’t allow anyone or anything to weaken your relationship.

That means meeting your spouse’s needs before your parents’ needs, coming home with enough time left in the evening to have quality time together, and inviolate date nights.

5. GIVE EACH OTHER PLEASURE DAILY

Marriage is ultimately about making each other feel good and striving to give your spouse pleasure on a daily basis – on his or her terms. If she says she likes lilies, don’t bring her roses because you think they’re more romantic.

Learn how your spouse prefers to be given to – whether it’s physical affection, words of affirmation, receiving gifts, acts of service (like helping out in the house, running errands) or spending quality time – and get in the daily habit of doing it.

You’ll enjoy giving more than receiving